Asa Reger was born on Dec 31, 2011 at 11:59PM. He's 21" long and weighs 8 pounds, 11 ounces. He's healthy and happy.
Heather went to the hospital on the evening of Dec 30. Over the course of that night and the next day we watched the clock, wondering when Asa would arrive. Being so close to the new year he was the subject of much speculation. With an hour to go it looked like he'd be a 2012 baby. But with 15 minutes to go things really heated up. His official birth time is 11:59PM on Dec 31, 2011.
If I were to get all "sciencey" I'd say that he was born 20 seconds after midnight. A couple hours prior I had synchronized my watch with the official NIST atomic clock. The clock in the room was a little slow... a minute or two. But all of the digital clocks on the delivery carts were synchronized with the correct time. I figured they'd roll one in for the birth. They didn't so the official recorder used the 1960's style wall clock. Asa was most likely the first baby in Atlanta. But Heather didn't want the attention and in the heat of the moment I wasn't about the belabor the point. We were more focused on a healthy and happy Asa.
He's a sweet little baby. Not much crying. Lots of snuggling. Somewhere between Ava and Emme on the sweetness scale.
He has a dimple on his right cheek. Heather says he has my nose and mouth.
His umbilical cord had a knot in it! It was loose when he came out but you'll see in the pictures that it tightened down after being cut. The nurses were amazed by it.
It was a rough labor for Heather. The epidural wore off halfway through the 28 hour process and when they tried to give her more it didn't take effect. This led to an excruciating hour of natural labor contractions. Many docs later they just decided to replace the epidural. When that happened it seems that all of the medicine did take effect. Heather was 100% numb, which isn't actually the plan... they want to see some sensation of pressure and ability to move the legs. Then she started to vomit.
Then about 30 minutes before midnight the epidural again wore off. Another excruciating 20 minutes followed, hoping for more meds. Ultimately it was time for Asa to arrive and after a few minutes of pushing he did.
Ava and Emme visited Asa the next morning. They have some big plans for the little dude!
Thanks to friends and family for all of the support!
We've had their new bedroom set up for close to a year. But never made the switch. So yesterday we ran some final errands to pick up the missing pieces for the room.
Night came and the kiddos jumped right in. Mom stayed with them for a while (after kicking dad out because apparently he's a force of distraction.) They stayed in the beds all night.
I woke up with the sun and snuck up to take a couple pics of them waking up. Too cute.
Big step for the little ones. Now we have to make it stick. I'm already coaching Mom... we do not negotiate with terrorists! The new bedroom is where it's at! Keep the momentum!
Last week I felt some pain in a tooth. Nothing major but enough to make me set up a dental appointment. I expected a 30 minute something or other. Instead I was told that I had a cracked tooth. Apparently it's fairly rare. There were a number of people checking my x-rays, wiggling my tooth. This isn't a Joe Didn't Brush sort of thing. I eat a lot of almonds and I figure I caught one of the hard ones at the wrong angle. I don't remember it cracking but it does seem like a few weeks ago that it started to feel loose when I flossed. Who knows. Just my luck.
The remedy... how bad could it be, I figured? Pretty bad. The tooth had to be extracted immediately. Well, ok... I'll get a fake tooth, right? Yes, in ten months. Huh? The extraction heals for four months and then an implant is drilled into my jawbone. Then that takes six months to heal after which a fake tooth can be installed. My immediate fear was that I'm going to be doing a lot of meetings over the next 10 months and Missin' Tooth Joe isn't nearly as good at selling Big Data services as All Tooth Joe. Dr. Snyder spent the time to talk me through it. I could get a fake tooth. But in his estimation it would make it hard to talk. Bad Talking Joe is even worse than Missin' Tooth Joe. And Dr. Snyder assured me that it wouldn't be as visible as I thought. The tooth is on the bottom right, halfway between the front and back teeth. I was skeptical. But he was right.
On Tuesday I went to a dental surgeon... Dr. Silverstein. Text book author and world tour speaker. Nice guy. Willing to explain what he's doing. The procedure was quick. And violent. I've had plenty of adult teeth out. Never anything like this. Afterwards I was numb. Made it home. Showed the kids the hole in my teeth. And promptly hit the floor from pain. The anesthetic wore off all of a sudden and it was miserable. I should have taken the pain pill the moment I left the surgeon's office. Holy tamole. One of the worse hours of my life waiting for it to kick in. Not kidding.
Yesterday was fairly bad too. Lots of pain. I took some pain meds in the morning but by 11am didn't want to take any more. I'm terrified that I'll have some sort of mini-withdrawl headache on a 10 hour flight tomorrow. I wanted that junk out of my system. Which made yesterday rough.
Today was no picnic. But it was better than yesterday. Some swelling but so far no bruising. We'll see. Travel for work all next week. Convention, manning a booth... need to be crisp and presentable.
First Mac product I've purchased in 15 or 20 years. Coincidentally, I pushed the Order button just 10 minutes before the news flash about Steve Jobs. They interrupted prime time television to make the announcement of his death. These days I'm working with Hadoop and other open source big data technologies from the Hadoop ecosystem. After working on a desktop from home for some time my many laptops have gotten old/slow/obsolete. I need to be able to run an OS inside of a virtual machine. I've watched MacOSX gain acceptance in the developer community for years now but have resisted jumping in. I compared the specs on the MacBook(s) to a windows machine and realized that while there was a premium price being paid, it wasn't as massive as it used to be. So I jumped in. MacOSX is backed by linux which I use for all of my production stuff. Most of the open source big data projects maintain some MacOSX compatibility. Plus, the machine is pretty. Really is. Biggest fear: right click says what!??! I'll figure things out. Specs: MacBook Pro 15", 8Gb RAM, 500Gb 7200rpm drive, hi-res glossy screen 1650x1050, 1Gb video ram. I bought the 8Gb outside of Apple, can upgrade myself. Planning on moving to a main SSD drive with a secondary big drive. I figure I'll install everything, learn about the OS and generally screw things up before reinstalling when I get the SSD. Onward.
Update: Initial observations after 20 mins playing with it (the MacBook.) A softer experience with gradients and gentle bounces on screen. Maximizing windows seems to be discouraged leaving me with off-center windows which makes me feel disorderly. Icons free-floating all over the place feels disorderly. Definitely a user interface for those that don't like rigidity. I tend to like some rigidity on the interface because it acts as a crutch... organizing things and providing structure... so that my thinking can be more exploratory. The old lesson that we live in 3d but work in 2d... because the loss of a dimension allows us to think.
Update: I've used other people's macs hundreds of times throughout the years. I'm finally starting to understand some of the structure of this UI. Previously it was hunt and click.
Update: Less Save and Apply buttons in general. That's nice. I click a preference and it's automatically saved. In Windows the mindset is to make preference changes and then Save or Apply them, which takes a little extra work (but has some benefit.)
Update: I'm definitely negotiating with myself when it comes to changing config to be more familiar. For example, making the icons snap to a grid. I'm used to that and want to make the MacBook do that. But I'm also challenging myself to adopt the new freewheeling mindset of the UI. Fighting the current, at least this early on, not the best plan.
Update: So the default icon for a windows machine on the network is a 1994 CRT monitor and a BSOD. Well played.
Update: Obviously a mindset to limit system feedback to the user. No flashing lights telling you that stuff's happening. Can be scary for somebody who's worked on machines built with a mindset of giving as much feedback as possible. That said, I can't argue with simplicity.
Update: My move to the cloud a couple years ago has paid off tens of times with windows box reinstalls... I can usually be up and running in a couple hours while in the past it took weeks to get all of my data and apps moved. Thanks to GMail, Evernote, Dropbox, XMarks and other synchronizing apps I already feel like I can get some work done on the MacBook. Like, say, updating a blog.
Update: Ctrl-C driving me nuts... I keep hitting Fn-C.
Update, about a week later: I'm now about as productive as I am on a Windows box. Dev tools work. User interface makes sense. Microsoft Office runs. I really like the swipe gestures for Mission Control and Spaces... makes a laptop feel a lot like a multi-monitor machine.